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Douglas James McKay

1958 - 2022

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Wednesday

June

Wake

2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Wednesday, June 8, 2022

Lawrence Funeral Home

2119 Boston Post Road

Darien , Connecticut, United States

2036556127

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Wednesday

June

Wake

6:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Wednesday, June 8, 2022

Lawrence Funeral Home

2119 Boston Post Road

Darien , Connecticut, United States

2036556127

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Thursday

June

Wake

2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Thursday, June 9, 2022

Lawrence Funeral Home

2119 Boston Post Road

Darien , Connecticut, United States

2036556127

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Thursday

June

Wake

6:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Thursday, June 9, 2022

Lawrence Funeral Home

2119 Boston Post Road

Darien , Connecticut, United States

2036556127

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Friday

June

Mass

10:00 am

Friday, June 10, 2022

St John Catholic Church

1986 Post Road

Darien, Connecticut, United States

203-655-1145

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Burial

Spring Grove Cemetery

41 Hecker Avenue

Darien, Connecticut, United States

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Kevin Coulombe posted a condolence

Thursday, July 13, 2023

Received the Spring 2023 copy of Fort Schuyler and saw the announcements of the passing of Pete Peers '79, John McCarthy '80, Dave Wooley '80, and Doug McKay, '80. I had heard about Dave earlier in the year. Doug passing is a real shock. Doug roomed across from me in our MUG year. I think the first or second day that we had moved in my door was open, a radio was playing and this guy across the way, yelled BRUCE!!!!!, barged in, and cranked the radio up all the way. A Pink Floyd fan this was my very first introduction to Springstein and Doug McKay. Doug was a force of nature. He ACED everything with elan, alacrity and seemingly effortlessly. I assume he had a photographic memory, was a genius or both. An absolutely amazing man. An engineer, I heard he later got a law degree (it seems like everyone got a law degree) and won his very first court case with flair. The world is a lesser place without Doug McKay. Captain Kevin Coulombe, Master, US Merchant Marine (ret), SUNY '79

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Brian Kelly posted a condolence

Thursday, June 16, 2022

I have great memories of Doug (Duke) throughout the past 40+ years. I am honored to have had him as a friend and he will be deeply missed by all who came in contact with him. He always had a way of bringing people together for the common good of all. His wit was incredible! My sincere condolences to the entire McKay family. “Every day is a gift”.

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Jack Mccauley posted a condolence

Sunday, June 12, 2022

Doug’s selflessness and generosity had a big impact on me. Will always remember his leadership (cooking!) at St John’s bfasts and Homecare. When Doug was present all good and joyful things (fellowship, communion, brotherhood, food and laughter!) just flowed! He made all things fun! God bless you Doug!!

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Scott Levinson lit a candle

Thursday, June 9, 2022

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Please accept my condolences. Doug was a colleague and friend at Con Edison. His thirst for life and people and courage to always speak up and do the right thing were inspiring to me and so many others. We miss him deeply. You are in my thoughts. Scott Levinson

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Steve Carbery posted a condolence

Wednesday, June 8, 2022

From the first time we met that summer of 1976 and SUNY Maritime College in da Bronx, right up until our ski trip in Montana this past spring, Doug has always been a wonderful friend to all who knew him. That ability to bring everybody together, whether it was for just having a great time or for a work weekend up at our ski club, Doug was the organizer, but never the center of attention, unless of course he was telling a story and boy can he tell a story. The world is going to be a little less organized with Doug gone so we're all going to have to step up and grab the reins because that's what Duke would want us to do. Remember- Life is a gift. Fair winds and following seas shipmate. Finished with Engines. We already miss you Duke.

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Teressa Barillas posted a condolence

Wednesday, June 8, 2022

My heartfelt condolences go out to Doug's family and friends. I will keep him in my thoughts and prayers.

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Tony & Lorraine (Kessler) DeRosa posted a condolence

Tuesday, June 7, 2022

From our days at Cardinal Spellman, to all the various Montauk pleasures, Dougie’s lighthearted, playful personality was always welcome in our often overly stressed group of people! He is gone way too soon and will greatly be missed.

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John Kessler posted a condolence

Tuesday, June 7, 2022

Condolences and deepest sympathies to the entire McKay family. We have many wonderful memories of times spent with Dougie, his parents and siblings during fun fishing trips and lively gatherings at the Montauk house. We will miss him very much.

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Peter Hagan posted a condolence

Tuesday, June 7, 2022

My deepest sympathy to the family of Douglas McKay. I vividly remember 1982 when Doug joined us in the Con Ed Law Department. He brought a beaming smile, a jolly laugh, a sharp wit, a probing mind and a deep faith. He also came aboard with the discipline and insight of having been a graduate of New York Maritime College. I appreciated having a fellow veteran on our staff. He was always squared away, and mission centered. He could focus on details, as well as the overall objective. He was humble, truly the salt of the earth. He practice law with a passion for finding the truth in each case he tried. He inspired those who worked with him to do likewise. He built teams and deftly steered his team to work in harmony toward our task. He was a mentor and role model for all who worked with him. Douglas is one of the most Christlike men I have ever met. I firmly believe he has heard Our Lord’s words, “ Welcome Douglas, Well done, my good and faithful servant “ Peter Hagan. Con Ed Law Department 1972-2014.

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Rich Yako posted a condolence

Monday, June 6, 2022

Such a good man, I'm saddened to hear this. It was a pleasure knowing/working with Doug. God welcome Doug to Heaven and God grant you all comfort and peace.

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Steve Werse posted a condolence

Monday, June 6, 2022

This is a sorrowful time for all of you as you grieve the loss of Doug. We attend college together and sailed together Tankships in 1981 - a great classmate and shipmate. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Steve

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Sur McSherry posted a condolence

Monday, June 6, 2022

What a special guy and what a heartbreaking loss. Gone to soon. Sympathies to al the family and old friends who knew him and loved him. RIP Dougie!!

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Monday, June 6, 2022

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Monday, June 6, 2022

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My condolences to the extended McKay family for this sudden, untimely passing. I was lucky to have worked with Doug for a few decades. You could do no better. DJM could simplify a complex case with his practical knowledge of how things work. He knew how people work as well. His warm smile was disarming, and he would talk with anyone openly, including scoundrels on the other side in the courtroom. He was quite proud of his family. He is in our prayers. John and Jenny Rand

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Monday, June 6, 2022

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Memories in Ireland an Irish wedding 2006. Condolences to the McKay Family from Carlingford xx

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Jon Ball posted a condolence

Monday, June 6, 2022

I had the great pleasure to get to know Doug over the past many years, working with him in his role at Con Edison. He was always a true professional, an expert is his field...and a warm, friendly guy who was always a pleasure to be around. My sincerest condolences to the McKay family. While we are all left to wrestle with the emotions of losing a truly good man, his faith tells me that he is in a better place. May he rest in peace.

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John deacy posted a condolence

Monday, June 6, 2022

Condolences extended to the entire McKay family and friends of Doug. What an unique individual! I am grateful for the time spent with him over the years, and the chance to see him one last time. RIP Doug! Please say hello to Herb and Kay, up in Heaven! John Deacy

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Monday, June 6, 2022

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Monday, June 6, 2022

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He once refaird to me as John the baptist, fond memories all those years ago... Rest in piece...

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Frank Piazza posted a condolence

Monday, June 6, 2022

So sad to read about Doug’s passing. First met Doug during his Y-Guides years. He was so genuine, entertaining and caring. Got to know him even more on those late train rides home from NYC to Darien. Always smiling with a great sense of humor. He will be missed. God bless.

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Tim, Kim, & Layla Kostusak purchased flowers

Monday, June 6, 2022

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With love and sympathy. Doug will be missed by everyone that knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Tim, Kim, & Layla Kostusak planted a tree in memory of Douglas McKay

Monday, June 6, 2022

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With love and sympathy. Doug will be missed by everyone that knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Nadine Rivellese posted a condolence

Monday, June 6, 2022

My deepest sympathy to Doug’s family. I enjoyed working with him at Con Edison. He always had a way of bringing a smile to everyone in the room. He will be missed. - Nadine Rivellese

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Tom Lochtefeld posted a condolence

Monday, June 6, 2022

I am so saddened to hear this. I saw Doug during my commute for many years and he always gave me a friendly smile and had something nice to say. He also did an amazing job with the Indian Princesses and Guides and made it so great for the kids. The world lost a good one on Friday. He'll be missed. My condolences to his immediate and extended family.

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Monday, June 6, 2022

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