Contributions to the tribute of Carmela Rose Kmeta

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Dale Zeide posted a condolence

Sunday, April 18, 2021

*** I’m in awe of mom (& dad) for taking care of 3 generations of kids...and it goes without saying that Rick & Anthony were her world, their world *** ———————————————————- To me, Mom was a little of everything. She was strong, tough, resilient, gutsy, had straight-shooter humor, was boss of the house and she knew how to use her Sicilian temper. On the other hand, she was a softy...easy-going, never complained, passive, compassionate (particularly w/children, church)..she was shy or timid at times. Growing up, Mom working outside the home impacted me the most. I learned from her being a go-getter, determined, hard working , self-motivated, street savvy woman. Sales was her calling and she was amazing at it: always being a top salesperson, newspaper articles written about her, she was sought after from other companies , when she sold cars the manager often called her in to close a sale for a male co-worker who couldn’t . Her nickname at work became “the closer”. For this, in particular, made me very proud of my mother because it taught me to be a strong, independent woman who can do anything a man can. Although her work and life ethics were amazing, my sisters and I weren’t too keen about it carrying over into the household as she ruled with an “iron fist”. On the soft/fun side of mom, although she enjoyed a simple and uncomplicated life, I thought she was a cool mother. She would drive us to Ticketmaster waiting in line early so we could get the best seats before the concert sold out, take us for trendy decal tshirts & high top colored Converse and bring us to professional basketball, football & hockey games. Mom (& dad for that matter), taught us girls to be hard working, respectful, caring, compassionate, independent women... and to always try our best with whatever we did. Mom wasn’t perfect and she never tried to be ... & I love that ! It wasn’t until I was a young adult that I realized what mom was about and who she was to me. I remember thinking, one day when I get married I want her to be my made-of-honor because she’s my best friend . I always joked with mom that, even though she didn’t have any baby pictures of me, she was still my favorite mother . I’ll miss her sassiness, candid sense of humor and one liners. Love you mom ❤️❤️

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Sonia Preta posted a condolence

Sunday, April 18, 2021

I’m so glad I finally got to meet Carmella after hearing so many wonderful things about her from Dale. She truly was an incredible woman who loved and cared so much for her family, and had such a great sense of humor. Dale, my heart breaks for you and your family. May you find comfort somehow in these very challenging times. Sending much Love and Hugs. ~Sonia

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Tai Frazier posted a condolence

Saturday, April 17, 2021

Dear Gigi and family, Thank you for the most amazing childhood a 40 year old gal could ask for. I remember sharing summers with you in Long Island and the love your grandparents showed me because of our friendship. I’ll always cherish Carmela’s grace, laugh and how much she loved her family. Love today and always, Tai

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Rebeca Pagan posted a condolence

Saturday, April 17, 2021

I know your hearts must be heavy at the loss of your family matriarch, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, friend. She loved hard and lived life according to her own terms. She was great-grandmother to my grandchildren and therein lies our commonality, love and respect. I offer my sincerest condolences. May she rest in perpetuity alongside her beloved,,Walter. God bless

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Leslie posted a condolence

Friday, April 16, 2021

Carmela was such a beautiful and graceful woman. While she may have appeared delicate, she had an inner strength which served her well. She was always wonderful company and very humorous! Her sense of humor and candor provided many laughs - I’m still using some of her lines. She will be missed by all. Hugs to Dale, her sisters and adored great grandchildren. Leslie and Richard x

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Mark Scheidt posted a condolence

Wednesday, April 14, 2021

I was saddened to learn of your mother’s passing, and at the same time, of your father’s as well. I have very fond memories of them both, and I enjoyed hearing updates about them and the boys through the years. I will remember Carmela’s kindness and the extent of her love and devotion to her (great) grandchildren. I know she has found peace and is reunited with Walter, and I hope that offers a measure of consolation to you and your entire family.

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Jane McNamara posted a condolence

Wednesday, April 14, 2021

I am so sorry to hear that your Mom has passed as well as your Dad. They both were exceptional people to have known. I do think of them often. Always a smile and some gossip too. They both truly loved life! Their energy and love were always present. They made a loving mark on those they met. I am sorry that they are no longer sharing in life with us, but I know they will be with us forever . I am sending a virtual hug to all. ❤️Jane

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Sassy Slattery posted a condolence

Wednesday, April 14, 2021

What a beautiful tribute! Daley, I am so happy I had the chance to meet your Mom. You have all had a rough year but I’m happy to think about your Mom and Dad together again. We are sending strength love and support to you all. Love, Sarah, Ty and Evelyn.

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