Obituary of Tamara Nielsen Whittier

Tamara Nielsen Whittier passed away peacefully in her sleep at home on July 20, 2019. She was 58 years old. "Tami" was born on March 27, 1961 in Greenwich, CT to the late Gerald Nielsen Sr. and Joanne Tammany Nielsen of Darien. She was a life-long resident of Darien where she developed her love of the beach and the ocean. After attending the Convent of the Sacred Heart in Greenwich she went on to graduate from Darien High School in 1979 and attended Dean College in Franklin, MA and Wesley College in Dove, DE. Tami was a devoted parishioner of Noroton Presbyterian Church and a former member of the Shore and Country Club in Norwalk, CT. As a teenager, Tami had a love of horses and especially riding and jumping. An injury forced her to give up riding but she took great joy in cheering on her younger brother and two sisters as they followed her to become champion riders and jumpers themselves. This familial love of horses led to the family purchase of Sunnyfield Farm in Bedford, New York in 1980 and the successful breeding of numerous champion thoroughbred winners. After school, Tami joined the family business as a partner in the Nielsen Company and worked on the sales floor and as a designer at Nielsens Florist for 35 years. She had an innate sense of color and scheme which was admired by many. Often customers became friends and came to the florist just to get a big smile and chat and catch up. Her contributions helped Nielsens Florist to be recognized as one of the premier floral businesses in the State of Connecticut. Tami was beautiful, loving, and gentle but the word her family and friends would say best summed her up was "kind". Her kindness knew no bounds and was evident throughout everything she did. She met her husband, Morgan Whittier in March, 1991 and they were married on August 29, 1992. Together they embarked on a 27 year adventure full of love, fun, friendships, and deep ties to family. Tami loved to entertain friends at home, but also looked forward to dining out with family and friends. Tami thoroughly enjoyed "gossiping" with her sisters and girlfriends over a glass of chardonnay. Tami loved to travel and visited almost every country in Europe. However, her true love was the ocean and her fondest memories were of family trips cruising the British Virgin Islands and annual summer vacations to Nantucket, the Outer Banks of North Carolina and Hilton Head Island, SC. Tamis greatest source of pride and joy in life was motherhood and her children Megan Suzanne, age 22 and JohnScott "Jack" age 19. She loved them "to the moon and back and all the stars." She also took great joy in serving as Godmother to Sarah Nielsen, Frederick Mazzotta, and Jimmy Kuehler. Her children reflect the warmth and kindness that was so much a part of Tamis soul. Tami demonstrated great courage, dignity and grace during her battle with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS). Her love of life and strength of faith were inspirational and overshadowed the effects of the disease. In addition to her husband and children, Tami is survived by her mother Joanne, brother, Gerald A. Nielsen Jr. and his wife Judith of Darien, sister, Sandra and her husband Steven Baumann of Rowayton, and sister, Karen and her husband Michael Kuehler of Hilton Head Island, SC, as well as 14 nieces and nephews. The Family will receive friends at the Edward Lawrence Funeral Home, 2119 Post Road, Darien on Thursday, July 25, 2019 from 4:00 to 8:00 PM. A Memorial Service will be held at Noroton Presbyterian Church, 2011 Post Road, Darien on Friday, July 26, 2019 at 11:00 AM. Memorial donations would be welcomed by The ALS Association Connecticut Chapter, 4 Oxford Road, Suite E4, Milford, CT 06460. Funeral Home: Edward Lawrence Funeral Home 2119 Post Road Darien, CT USA 06820